hey all, i keep wanting to mention that while we were in ireland, we met a young christian guy with a very interesting story. you can read about it at www.amandaspoems.com. his name is aaron dieppa.
okay, i just need to process my family again. this summer is about letting go some more. it seems like niklaas is staying young as long as possible, matthew is about where most average 11 year olds are at, emily is a girl and so at about the same level as matthew. that leaves me with triplets right now. however, my triplets are as very different as can be. yesterday i asked niklaas to put water in the water cooker and turn it on. well, he didn't even know what a water cooker was, never mind how to turn it on (a big buttom on top!) however, ask him the meaning of any word and he's on it. he is now still working on his three apart story, his video game, and reading the reverse dictionary which is opening his world of words up even more. matthew has been very compassionate during my crutches time. he's very careful to walk with me, get me water, etc. (nik hasn't even noticed i'm on crutches and possibly needing help). matthew is very sensitive and compassionate. emily is just nonstop. she's been driving me nuts, so i'm trying hard every night not just to pray with her, but read with her in bed or sit and listen to an odyssey together. we've been baking muffins together and today we'll pain together. i can't even count anynmore how many games of phase 10 we've played or poker or uno or you get the picture. so, all this is good and fine because i love and celebrate the different people God creates.
this is also the summer of letting go. we had company when school ended and summer started so i wasn't there to process this with them. then it was right off to ireland. then straight into surjury. i finally feel like we have summer. it is very busy with world cup every night two games. we are not getting very much sleep, but it's the world cup in germany!! so my kids have had to be on their own many days for long periods of time and they have done great!! it's all good, but hard to let go a little more even it's something you want to do because it's good, right, and healthy. my friend esther (dutch) is a physcologist and she says she loves watching how healthy my kids are. mom, do remember this feeling? am i babbling - again!
niklaas has been enjoying his breakaway very much. it covers some pretty grown up topics that are still making him uncomfortable, but both boys love it. matthew and emily have not been receiving the clubhouse, did you order this for them? the breakaway is coming to niklaas and matthew schalm.
my leg is doing good. markus has been giving me an injection every morning. who's the braver one hey! our doctor is great. he's very thorough as germans are. my surjury was on friday, saturday morning i ws back in get the tube pulled out, tuesday i was back in just to look at it, friday i go back to get the stiches out. i've also been signed up for 10 physiotherapy session - three a week. this seems kinda overdone to me, but i guess when in germany do as the germans!
can you tell i'm missing you all. it's just really hitting, the reality that we will not be seeing you next summer. we have decided to stay anyother summer because otherwise there would be no one here in finance - can't happen. markus an matthew will fly to calgray right after christmas for the new year. markus really wants to come to niverville during this time, but i'm not sure this will happen.
it sounds like gary and bernice have bought a house in winnipeg - gary is there now shopping for a house. i think he signed something yesterday. this is a relief to markus work wise, but can you imagin how they must be feeling. he had to find a house that is or could be made wheelchair accesible, one that bernice could resell after he passes away, it's all just overwhelming to me. they are definately in Gods grace bubble right now.
okay, i'll go now and stop boring you all. i realize it's only me in this family who really loves to talk about this kind fo stuff all the time. i am extremely relationally wired.
love you all, teresa




